Err....i insisted on none.
I paid for him to sue me for a divorce though. The lawyer makaned
up the monies I meant to give him too because I know he will be
terribly broke.
He refuses to let me be the plaintiffs citing his mother's sickness
and he dont want to aggrevate her.
So, out of respect for my 'ailing' MIL, I let myself be the bad guy
and he claim I was unfaithful and unreasonable because I refused to
go work as a factory operator to help him out on his debts.
My only condition was to buy over my hdb flat. and i didnt even
invoke the womans charter against him and paid for the flat for its
full amount including interests.
Sooo....I consider those debts repaid to him for him helping me out
while I was struggling earlier in my financial problems earlier in
the relationship.
